“MY EXPERIENCE IS WHAT I AGREE TO ATTEND TO. ONLY THOSE ITEMS WHICH I NOTICE SHAPE MY MIND.” -William James
We can’t change how people feel about us so we stop trying. Toxic relationship is that which drains life and energy out of you. At time we are so deep in it, we deny that we are suffocating in toxin. Toxic relationship makes you weak and ineffective, subjecting self to the whim or the impulse of the person to whom you have given your power. And I thought I was being nice and kind and understanding when in truth I was really neglecting my heart and allowed toxin to mess me up. When I neglected my heart, I noticed I didn’t really like myself enough and words that came out of my mouth were toxic –stinking and pernicious.